Sorry to hear about your neighbours mare, so very sad!
Rocklone your two sound like they need their own soap opera. lol
I had a stallion on loan for a while ( darn nightmare of a horse )that would only mate at night, it took me a while to realise that that was the reason he wouldn't go near the girls during the day. He was the loudest stallion I have ever met, he would scream the house down when the girls went near him. Crazy dude! lol
These boys sure can be funny.
My Eagle was an absolute gentleman too Diane, he would ask nicely for permission and would also say thank you after too. lol That little guy taught me a lot, he sure was a pleasure to own and work with.